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Hard times..

Journal Entry: Mon Jan 4, 2010, 5:57 PM
So my gf broke up with me.. but she's confused.. i'm not dumb.. she's trying to detach herself from me so she can be with the other person... that or wait till she GETS the green light..

*sigh*

1 month vs a year and 1/2+... what a waste.

The only reason i'm holding on is because she says she loves me, but the more i think about... it really shouldn't be an option. My confidence has never been so low in my life..


~:iconkandoken:

P.S. I'll try my best to get commissions done. I just need to get in the right state of mind. I'm terribly sorry for having you guys wait, it's just i've been putting up with so much b.s. that's completely unfair. And the more i think about it, the worse off i become.

P.S.S Rarely do i post up like, personal issues, but right now i really can't talk to anybody i know about this, it's just really embarrassing.. and sad.

  • Mood: Miserable
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:iconheymrkindred:
~HeyMrKindred Jan 7, 2010  Student Traditional Artist
dude i was in the same situation, 2 years, threat of someone else, sometimes all you can do is talk to another person about it. also about that confidence thing, a quick booster to that is to think of what shes missin out on, you're obviously very talented. you just have to not make her a priority and get cocky for a while.
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:icondantelks:
sadly you can't rely on other people anymore, this kind of situation is shit, try movin' on, hard but sometimes is the only thing to do
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:iconjaysa-laser:
~Jaysa-Laser Jan 6, 2010   Digital Artist
sorry to hear this. my two pennies: Observe your sadness, your feelings, but don't indulge in it, like all things, it will pass, just get back to the middle :hug:
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:iconpyroglyphics1:
I've been there fam. Sorry your new year is off to this kind of start but this might be the sign you need. Hang in there.
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:iconarvelous:
~arvelous Jan 5, 2010  Student General Artist
I'm not really sure what to say with losing someone. But, I hope that things workout for the best. Hopefully things will get better as they move on.
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=avancna Jan 5, 2010  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Stay strong.
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:iconvenomaxxx:
WTF ya dont let her put you on a waiting list?, bun that man. u dont deserve that shit, really just say fuck, choose right now, him or me, and if she chooses them, say peace, youre loss and realize that u seriously deserve better than than. and if 1-3 months later she comes back (which they often do) say fuuuuck that. u made ur choice. once u do this my friend, you will feel like a king i promise u.

AND u know this is all wayy easier said than done BUT this is a shit situation we all get, and this is the best way. goodluck
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:iconthelearningcurv:
one thing I realized in life is that sometimes we're faced with things we NEED and not what we want. If she doesn't want you(not in words, but in actions) then don't waste your time. Life is too short. You guys aren't together for a reason bro, think about that. you don't want to waste the precious time that your life has with someone who isn't entirely dedicated to you.

I just recently have broken up with my girl, and I am happier for it, for one reason. I realized that she's not the best woman for me. As much as we are really good puzzle pieces that fit really well, we're from two different puzzles and at the end of the day, we'd have to be pulled apart in order to complete our own puzzles..... You need to take care of you, and if a woman is willing to be a part of that, then more power to that.....
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:iconjets:
Best thing you can do is move on. I wish I had done it sooner. Trust me it's not worth the trouble if she's discarding your feelings like this.
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